[sansa frowns a little; she barely understands what a couple is, but she's sure someone asked someone on a date at some point, surely? that does seem to be how it goes in the videos...

the tiny furrow in her brow deepens as he talks about his oath. she doesn't see how their relationship could ever come before it, especially before marriage. she can see how they might come to have conflicting duties, but only under the circumstances sansa strives so hard to avoid.]

I can't see what there is to resign myself to, in your vows. I don't even know what it might look like, if you were to put our relationship before them. Of course we might disagree about things, but––you must have noticed we haven't disagreed about very much, so far.

[she smiles faintly. it's one of the things sansa loves about him. somehow he always manages to reassure her, even when she feels she's talking nonsense. they always seem to be on the same page.]

I thought that––being a couple was when you might like to be married someday, but you haven't arranged a betrothal.

[she pauses, as close to sheepish as she ever gets. but then she brightens a bit, raising her eyebrows.]

Is that why you haven't kissed me?